What kind of married man strays, and more importantly, why? Our reporter met three men through an adultery website to find out. To find out journalist Helen Croydon, 35, checked out maritalaffair. Big bed. I keep in shape and have clean teeth! Do I know these men inviting me to bed?
My life in sex: ‘I prefer other married men. Picking them up is easy’
Sex with Married Men as Gay Man
I met my wife at university, and we married when I was 27 and she was We had a vanilla sex life for the first 10 years, after which I decided we should stop. For 29 years we have had no sexual contact. This lack of a physical relationship goes undiscussed and does not cause any tension. We both take it for granted and are rarely in the same room. I can only assume my wife has remained celibate. Meanwhile, I get physical satisfaction from cottaging, something I started doing shortly after we married.
Everything I’ve Learnt From Sleeping With Married Men as a Gay Man
No one can quite prepare you for the experience of dating within the queer community. As you spend time online and out in the real world, you learn how to sift through guys who end up meeting your specific requirements. Many gay men I know, including myself, have gotten their hearts broken at the hands of men married to women, with many swearing off this category altogether after having their hopes dashed over and over. I was rather bewildered when I found out, but also intrigued.
There are 54 million people worldwide on the website, and I wanted to know what was drawing so many people to the cheating site. I created a couple of profiles for myself. I wanted to know and understand what the experience was like to cheat online. I was also curious about how it might be different for men and for women, and for gay and for straight people. First, I created a profile as a man looking to date a married woman and loaded it with as little information as possible.